Staying safe and respectful when you make contact
Updated 29 October 2026
Be clear and courteous
A good first message is short and respectful: a greeting, your general area, and the kind of time you're looking for. Clarity saves everyone time and sets a good tone.
Treat details as the advertiser's own
Contact details are published for people to reach the advertiser. Use them for that and nothing else. Never share someone's details elsewhere or contact them through channels they didn't list.
Trust your judgement
Listings are provided as-is and we don't verify them. If something feels off, walk away. You're always free to choose a different listing or a nearby city.
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